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mimetic desire, larping, and the rat race

september 1, 2026

a short reflection on the recruiting cycle, and how much of what we chase during it is borrowed — the companies everyone wants, the roles that signal status, the timelines we measure ourselves against.

rené girard called this mimetic desire: we want things not for themselves, but because other people want them. recruiting season is a near-perfect case study.

more soon.